Comments for Just a Cloud Away "Love Talk" http://shivere.wordpress.com Grieving Ideas to Cradle Your Pain Sat, 28 Nov 2009 04:49:19 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on Anxiety Disorder & My Stillborn Angel by Great Blog http://shivere.wordpress.com/2008/07/19/anxiety-disorder-my-stillborn-angel/#comment-814 Great Blog Sat, 28 Nov 2009 04:49:19 +0000 http://shivere.wordpress.com/?p=342#comment-814 Its nice to see you posting on this topic, I need to book mark this site. Just keep up the good work. Its nice to see you posting on this topic, I need to book mark this site. Just keep up the good work.

]]> Comment on Music, Memories & The Death of a Baby by livingintherainbow http://shivere.wordpress.com/2008/03/11/music-memories-the-death-of-a-baby/#comment-813 livingintherainbow Thu, 26 Nov 2009 10:16:20 +0000 http://shivere.wordpress.com/?p=217#comment-813 Some great songs here - in the end I downloaded "glory baby" by water mark, “My Immortal” by Evanescence and “Fallen” by Sarah McLachlan. All great songs so thanks for bringing them to my attention. Peace and a bright future to you all Some great songs here – in the end I downloaded “glory baby” by water mark, “My Immortal” by Evanescence and “Fallen” by Sarah McLachlan.

All great songs so thanks for bringing them to my attention.

Peace and a bright future to you all

]]> Comment on Garden Flags by VeeLynn Dover http://shivere.wordpress.com/garden-flags/#comment-812 VeeLynn Dover Tue, 24 Nov 2009 22:54:58 +0000 http://shivere.wordpress.com/?page_id=502#comment-812 Do you still have these available? Do you still have these available?

]]> Comment on Angel Memory Garden in Spring by VeeLynn Dover http://shivere.wordpress.com/2009/04/01/angel-memory-garden-in-spring/#comment-811 VeeLynn Dover Tue, 24 Nov 2009 22:50:58 +0000 http://shivere.wordpress.com/?p=465#comment-811 I wrote earlier this month about my stillborn daughter, I did not put her name in my article and I regret that. Hope was born November 11th, 1989, I just wanted to add that to my article I was just so caught up in the moment reading so many heart wrenching stories, of women much like myself. I want you to know I have healed more in the past month reading about other women and their experiences than I have in the last twenty years. I have never had anyone to talk to. God Bless & Thank you! VeeLynn I wrote earlier this month about my stillborn daughter, I did not put her name in my article and I regret that. Hope was born November 11th, 1989, I just wanted to add that to my article I was just so caught up in the moment reading so many heart wrenching stories, of women much like myself. I want you to know I have healed more in the past month reading about other women and their experiences than I have in the last twenty years. I have never had anyone to talk to.
God Bless & Thank you!
VeeLynn

]]> Comment on Music, Memories & The Death of a Baby by Diana Gardner-Williams http://shivere.wordpress.com/2008/03/11/music-memories-the-death-of-a-baby/#comment-810 Diana Gardner-Williams Tue, 24 Nov 2009 14:31:54 +0000 http://shivere.wordpress.com/?p=217#comment-810 Thank you for sharing these special songs with us. The term "best" is all relative to our individual situations and experiences. Peace Love and Hugs from Above Diana Thank you for sharing these special songs with us. The term “best” is all relative to our individual situations and experiences.

Peace Love and Hugs from Above
Diana

]]> Comment on Music, Memories & The Death of a Baby by livingintherainbow http://shivere.wordpress.com/2008/03/11/music-memories-the-death-of-a-baby/#comment-809 livingintherainbow Tue, 24 Nov 2009 09:01:53 +0000 http://shivere.wordpress.com/?p=217#comment-809 I might have to download some of these songs. I have listed all the songs I love since Abigail died here http://livingintherainbow.com/2009/11/20/stillbirth-songs/ Perhaps the best is Still by Gerrit Hofsink I might have to download some of these songs.

I have listed all the songs I love since Abigail died here

http://livingintherainbow.com/2009/11/20/stillbirth-songs/

Perhaps the best is Still by Gerrit Hofsink

]]> Comment on The Birth of My Stillborn Baby-Part 10 by Angie Hefley http://shivere.wordpress.com/2008/07/12/the-birth-of-my-stillborn-baby-part-10/#comment-808 Angie Hefley Tue, 24 Nov 2009 07:57:17 +0000 http://shivere.wordpress.com/?p=338#comment-808 First off I would like to say I'm deeply sorry for all of your losses, this is one of those situations where I say I know exactly how you feel and really do. Here's my story: Every since i can remember I knew I wanted to be a mom, growing up I always baby sat everyone elses kids and always had to give them back, was so ready to have my own. When I met my husband 4 years ago I knew he was the one I wanted to spend the rest of my life with and have kids with, we waited til August 6, 2009 to get married and my due date was Sept. 21, 2009. The closer I got to my due date the worse I felt so I constantly kept calling the doctor to see if i need to come in or what to do to make myself a little more comfortable, but they kept telling me I was fine and my symptoms were normal and that im not suppose to be comfortable this late in my pregnancy, deep down i just knew something wasnt right. So a day and a half before i had him i went to the ER and they monitored him and the first non-stress test was bad, the second was better and the 3rd one was good they said I was fine to just go home lay on my right side and drink plenty of clear fluids so thats what i did. I ended up going into labor September 12, 2009 I was 38weeks and 4days I got to the hospital(after have my bloody show) at about 4:30am they hooked me up on the monitor said everything was good I was dialted to 3cm and 80% thinned out and to just relax well at about 7:45am the doctor shows up, he comes in the room checks the monitor leaves and comes back with an ultrasound machine he does a couple of US's and says that he needs to tell me something and asked if my husband was around and I told him that he would be right back the nurse calls him and tells him to get in my room ASAP, after he gets back the doctor says the most horrifying thing I will ever hear "There is no easy way to tell you this but I can't find your baby's heartbeat" my husband and I were both speechless I mean this has been a smooth pregnancy how could this be right, we both asked what happened and the doctor said I Dont Know, so then i asked if they were gonna take him out of me or will I have him naturally and he said I would have to have him naturally so it wont damage my chances of getting pregnant again from that point on everything was a blur to me I vaguely remember pushing and hearing my mom ask the doctor if i was ok and said i looked yellow and why was I passing out, he said he didnt know. I delivered my son Derek Anthony Hefley at 12:10pm he was 7Lbs even and exactly 19inches long, I remember right when he came out I asked why isnt he crying and then they had to tell me again that he was alive. Then the doctor realized there was something wrong with me my kidneys and liver were shutting down and he didnt know why, I spent 2days in ICU and 6 in a regular room. They still had no idea what was wrong with me and why my son didnt make it. A month after I got out of the hospital I was told that I had Acute Fatty Liver of Pregnancy(AFLP) and the Provisional Autopsy report for my son said he died of Meconium Aspiration. I just recieved the Final Autopsy and it said that he died due to lack of oxygen and blood flow due to 60% of my placenta being dead, so I asked why my placenta was dead and the doctor says it was because of the AFLP, my body was shutting down slowly which was slowly killing my placenta. She said that I had gone untreated and then everything else just fell into place. I still don't understand why this had happened to me and so many questions linger about if my doctors would have listened to me would he still be here or was there absolutely anything could have prevented this? Im all better now and remembering more and more from that day and for the longest I was thinking that the day my son was born was the worst day of my life I now think of it as the best because he made me a proud mother a beautiful baby boy and gave me the pleasure of hold him in my arms and feeling that feeling of joy and excitement you get when you know that you've created this human being, he will always be apart of me and I will always love him and never forget my first child. I will always remember the way he looked, smelled, what he was wearing and that feeling I had while holding him in my arms. We were finally able to put him to rest September 23, 2009 between his Grandpa and Great Grandpa I know my son will be taken care of up there in Heaven and he will always be our little angel. Thank you for reading this and I hope that everyone finds peace in these tragic events and stays stong for our lost little ones. First off I would like to say I’m deeply sorry for all of your losses, this is one of those situations where I say I know exactly how you feel and really do. Here’s my story: Every since i can remember I knew I wanted to be a mom, growing up I always baby sat everyone elses kids and always had to give them back, was so ready to have my own. When I met my husband 4 years ago I knew he was the one I wanted to spend the rest of my life with and have kids with, we waited til August 6, 2009 to get married and my due date was Sept. 21, 2009. The closer I got to my due date the worse I felt so I constantly kept calling the doctor to see if i need to come in or what to do to make myself a little more comfortable, but they kept telling me I was fine and my symptoms were normal and that im not suppose to be comfortable this late in my pregnancy, deep down i just knew something wasnt right. So a day and a half before i had him i went to the ER and they monitored him and the first non-stress test was bad, the second was better and the 3rd one was good they said I was fine to just go home lay on my right side and drink plenty of clear fluids so thats what i did. I ended up going into labor September 12, 2009 I was 38weeks and 4days I got to the hospital(after have my bloody show) at about 4:30am they hooked me up on the monitor said everything was good I was dialted to 3cm and 80% thinned out and to just relax well at about 7:45am the doctor shows up, he comes in the room checks the monitor leaves and comes back with an ultrasound machine he does a couple of US’s and says that he needs to tell me something and asked if my husband was around and I told him that he would be right back the nurse calls him and tells him to get in my room ASAP, after he gets back the doctor says the most horrifying thing I will ever hear “There is no easy way to tell you this but I can’t find your baby’s heartbeat” my husband and I were both speechless I mean this has been a smooth pregnancy how could this be right, we both asked what happened and the doctor said I Dont Know, so then i asked if they were gonna take him out of me or will I have him naturally and he said I would have to have him naturally so it wont damage my chances of getting pregnant again from that point on everything was a blur to me I vaguely remember pushing and hearing my mom ask the doctor if i was ok and said i looked yellow and why was I passing out, he said he didnt know. I delivered my son Derek Anthony Hefley at 12:10pm he was 7Lbs even and exactly 19inches long, I remember right when he came out I asked why isnt he crying and then they had to tell me again that he was alive. Then the doctor realized there was something wrong with me my kidneys and liver were shutting down and he didnt know why, I spent 2days in ICU and 6 in a regular room. They still had no idea what was wrong with me and why my son didnt make it. A month after I got out of the hospital I was told that I had Acute Fatty Liver of Pregnancy(AFLP) and the Provisional Autopsy report for my son said he died of Meconium Aspiration. I just recieved the Final Autopsy and it said that he died due to lack of oxygen and blood flow due to 60% of my placenta being dead, so I asked why my placenta was dead and the doctor says it was because of the AFLP, my body was shutting down slowly which was slowly killing my placenta. She said that I had gone untreated and then everything else just fell into place. I still don’t understand why this had happened to me and so many questions linger about if my doctors would have listened to me would he still be here or was there absolutely anything could have prevented this? Im all better now and remembering more and more from that day and for the longest I was thinking that the day my son was born was the worst day of my life I now think of it as the best because he made me a proud mother a beautiful baby boy and gave me the pleasure of hold him in my arms and feeling that feeling of joy and excitement you get when you know that you’ve created this human being, he will always be apart of me and I will always love him and never forget my first child. I will always remember the way he looked, smelled, what he was wearing and that feeling I had while holding him in my arms. We were finally able to put him to rest September 23, 2009 between his Grandpa and Great Grandpa I know my son will be taken care of up there in Heaven and he will always be our little angel. Thank you for reading this and I hope that everyone finds peace in these tragic events and stays stong for our lost little ones.

]]> Comment on Garden Flags by Megan http://shivere.wordpress.com/garden-flags/#comment-807 Megan Thu, 19 Nov 2009 01:00:07 +0000 http://shivere.wordpress.com/?page_id=502#comment-807 Where can these be purchased? Where can these be purchased?

]]> Comment on Garden Flags by Janet http://shivere.wordpress.com/garden-flags/#comment-806 Janet Wed, 18 Nov 2009 15:43:24 +0000 http://shivere.wordpress.com/?page_id=502#comment-806 Are you still selling these? Are you still selling these?

]]> Comment on Proud Father and Stillborn Son Share Birthdays by natasha http://shivere.wordpress.com/2007/12/30/proud-father-and-stillborn-son-share-birthdays/#comment-804 natasha Thu, 12 Nov 2009 12:58:18 +0000 http://shivere.wordpress.com/2007/12/30/proud-father-and-stillborn-son-share-birthdays/#comment-804 i had a baby boy still born at 33 weeks... im only 19, now pregnant again with a second boy so parnoid about things going bad.. i always think of taro everyday and i hope he knows i love him so much and think of him evryday. i had a baby boy still born at 33 weeks… im only 19, now pregnant again with a second boy so parnoid about things going bad.. i always think of taro everyday and i hope he knows i love him so much and think of him evryday.

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