Comments for Just a Cloud Away "Love Talk" http://shivere.wordpress.com Grieving Ideas to Cradle Your Pain Sun, 27 Jul 2008 02:57:02 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=MU Comment on The Birth of My Stillborn Baby-Part 10 by diana gardner-williams http://shivere.wordpress.com/2008/07/12/the-birth-of-my-stillborn-baby-part-10/#comment-571 diana gardner-williams Wed, 23 Jul 2008 07:36:57 +0000 http://shivere.wordpress.com/?p=338#comment-571 Thank you so much Natashia for sharing your story of Robbie. The photograph of Tanner had been touched up by a friend. His bruises were very dark as well as his crimson lips. I looked a the website you sent along and it is beadiful. Wishing you peace love and hugs from above on your heaing journey Natashia Diana Thank you so much Natashia for sharing your story of Robbie.

The photograph of Tanner had been touched up by a friend. His bruises were very dark as well as his crimson lips.

I looked a the website you sent along and it is beadiful.

Wishing you peace love and hugs from above on your heaing journey Natashia

Diana

]]> Comment on The Birth of My Stillborn Baby-Part 10 by angelrobbiesmom http://shivere.wordpress.com/2008/07/12/the-birth-of-my-stillborn-baby-part-10/#comment-570 angelrobbiesmom Mon, 21 Jul 2008 18:04:04 +0000 http://shivere.wordpress.com/?p=338#comment-570 Diane I feel your pain and sorrow . I to, lost a baby. He was stillborn March 27,2008.It's been four months since he passed and I think of him a lot. I miss holding him and kissing his beautiful cheeks. He was so adorable. He to had tears on his eyes and nose and his mouth was a diffrent color . He was born breech. He came out leg and buttom. It was the most painful experience during child birth. I have three living children and they were nothing like the delivery like baby Robbie. He was 7lbs30z. He was born at 1318.I pushed from 1301 till1318.He was taken away to another room to be cleaned and to have him dressed and have his pictures done and foot prints and hair clippings. They told us before hand his skin was dark and tearing around eyes and nose and hands.He looked beautiful. I looked and looked at him so I can take a picture of him that will last forever. I'm thinking of you and understand what you are going through. I have a friend from the States who made me custom jewerly in Rememberance of my son. The colors are for the ,"Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awarness".Take a look and her work is very reasonable and beautiul! Hugs Natashia www.simplybeadiful.weebly.com Diane

I feel your pain and sorrow . I to, lost a baby. He was stillborn March 27,2008.It’s been four months since he passed and I think of him a lot. I miss holding him and kissing his beautiful cheeks. He was so adorable. He to had tears on his eyes and nose and his mouth was a diffrent color . He was born breech. He came out leg and buttom. It was the most painful experience during child birth. I have three living children and they were nothing like the delivery like baby Robbie.
He was 7lbs30z. He was born at 1318.I pushed from 1301 till1318.He was taken away to another room to be cleaned and to have him dressed and have his pictures done and foot prints and hair clippings. They told us before hand his skin was dark and tearing around eyes and nose and hands.He looked beautiful. I looked and looked at him so I can take a picture of him that will last forever.
I’m thinking of you and understand what you are going through.
I have a friend from the States who made me custom jewerly in Rememberance of my son. The colors are for the ,”Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awarness”.Take a look and her work is very reasonable and beautiul!
Hugs
Natashia

http://www.simplybeadiful.weebly.com

]]> Comment on The Birth of My Stillborn Baby-Part 8 by diana gardner-williams http://shivere.wordpress.com/2008/06/21/the-birth-of-my-stillborn-baby-part-8/#comment-568 diana gardner-williams Fri, 18 Jul 2008 19:19:25 +0000 http://shivere.wordpress.com/?p=254#comment-568 Tasha, Those words, "I am so sorry" are very haunting for us. My sweet little cousin's baby was also stillborn. Their situation was similar in that there was no apparent reason for her baby's death. Tanner was definately the cord. I hope you do have strong faith and believe that even though we do not know why, we do know they are together, happy and healthy ,waiting for us. I wish you Peace Love and Hugs from Above Tasha, Diana Tasha,

Those words, “I am so sorry” are very haunting for us.

My sweet little cousin’s baby was also stillborn. Their situation was similar in that there was no apparent reason for her baby’s death. Tanner was definately the cord.

I hope you do have strong faith and believe that even though we do not know why, we do know they are together, happy and healthy ,waiting for us.

I wish you Peace Love and Hugs from Above Tasha,
Diana

]]> Comment on The Birth of My Stillborn Baby-Part 8 by diana gardner-williams http://shivere.wordpress.com/2008/06/21/the-birth-of-my-stillborn-baby-part-8/#comment-564 diana gardner-williams Wed, 16 Jul 2008 11:37:17 +0000 http://shivere.wordpress.com/?p=254#comment-564 Dearest April, I am so sorry for the pain you and your family are going through right now. Everyone grieves differently, but if your sister is OK with this, take as many pictures of her baby as possible. Photograph her and her husbands hands holding the baby, the picture of the room, photograph the sky, the view from the window, take a lock of hair, change the baby's diaper, bathe the baby too if she is comfortable. My son was placed in the morgue for 2 days until my parents could fly into town. The hospital reserved a waiting room for all of us to be with TAnner as long as we wanted. Ask your sister if other family members can hold her baby and take photographs. Make sure hand and foot prints are taken. Just love on that child as long as you wish, hospital staff should be accomodating to your needs. My heart goes out to you April Peace Love and Hugs from Above Diana Dearest April,

I am so sorry for the pain you and your family are going through right now.

Everyone grieves differently, but if your sister is OK with this, take as many pictures of her baby as possible. Photograph her and her husbands hands holding the baby, the picture of the room, photograph the sky, the view from the window, take a lock of hair, change the baby’s diaper, bathe the baby too if she is comfortable.
My son was placed in the morgue for 2 days until my parents could fly into town. The hospital reserved a waiting room for all of us to be with TAnner as long as we wanted. Ask your sister if other family members can hold her baby and take photographs. Make sure hand and foot prints are taken.
Just love on that child as long as you wish, hospital staff should be accomodating to your needs.
My heart goes out to you April

Peace Love and Hugs from Above
Diana

]]> Comment on The Birth of My Stillborn Baby-Part 8 by April http://shivere.wordpress.com/2008/06/21/the-birth-of-my-stillborn-baby-part-8/#comment-563 April Wed, 16 Jul 2008 04:44:44 +0000 http://shivere.wordpress.com/?p=254#comment-563 Your story breaks my heart. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. My sister is at the hospital delivering a still born baby right now. It's such a nightmare, she also has a healthy daughter, is a healthy person, and had no complications with her pregnancy. So it was a huge shock. She just happens to be a neonatal nurse, so going back to work is probably going to be hard for her also. I was just looking for some advice... She really just wants to be alone, I know she needs to grieve. Is there anything I can do for her? I feel completely helpless. Your story breaks my heart. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. My sister is at the hospital delivering a still born baby right now. It’s such a nightmare, she also has a healthy daughter, is a healthy person, and had no complications with her pregnancy. So it was a huge shock. She just happens to be a neonatal nurse, so going back to work is probably going to be hard for her also. I was just looking for some advice… She really just wants to be alone, I know she needs to grieve. Is there anything I can do for her? I feel completely helpless.

]]> Comment on The Birth of My Stillborn Baby-Part 10 by Tasha http://shivere.wordpress.com/2008/07/12/the-birth-of-my-stillborn-baby-part-10/#comment-561 Tasha Tue, 15 Jul 2008 02:10:49 +0000 http://shivere.wordpress.com/?p=338#comment-561 Diana, I am so sorry this happened to you too. No woman should have to experience this lost. What helped me was my girls and my husband. Its only been 3 months since i lost my son, but there is not a day that passes I dont think of him. People will tell you to lock away your baby stuff, not to go in the room, or to visit his grave too much. Trust me listen to your heart. My heart told me to hold his clothes in my hands and cry it all. It was like a drug for me I had to go to the grave, I still do. Your heart will tell you what to do trust it. Tasha. coco_tash@hotmail.com Diana,

I am so sorry this happened to you too. No woman should have to experience this lost. What helped me was my girls and my husband. Its only been 3 months since i lost my son, but there is not a day that passes I dont think of him.
People will tell you to lock away your baby stuff, not to go in the room, or to visit his grave too much. Trust me listen to your heart. My heart told me to hold his clothes in my hands and cry it all. It was like a drug for me I had to go to the grave, I still do. Your heart will tell you what to do trust it.

Tasha.
coco_tash@hotmail.com

]]> Comment on The Birth of My Stillborn Baby-Part 8 by Tasha http://shivere.wordpress.com/2008/06/21/the-birth-of-my-stillborn-baby-part-8/#comment-560 Tasha Tue, 15 Jul 2008 01:59:49 +0000 http://shivere.wordpress.com/?p=254#comment-560 As I read these testimones my heart breaks in two. I am 25 years old, March 31st 2008 I found out out my son had died. I was 32 weeks pregnant. I was so lost, so confuse how could this be my health was perfect. I was a mother of two healthy daughters. My son Jamar was growing perfect. I remember that weekend i felt no movement but all i keep saying was he must be too fat to move around. But when Sunday came I felt nothing at all. I knew something was wrong. That monday I went to see my doctor he hooked me up to the monitor, my heart stoped, I can picture his face when i close my eyes when he turned to me and said those four words, I am so sorry. I heard him but I went numb, It took me about five minutes before i realized my son was gone. MY heart felt like it was spiliting in two I can just remember tears flooding my eyes. , the hardest thing I had to ever do was to tell my girls their brother was not coming home. I was induced the next day within 7 hours he was here. I was so afraid, but then at the same time I was ready, ready to hold him and say goodbye. I wish so many times I had spent more time with him, held him longer kissed his perfect little face. Some people say to me your young try again, but those who has not experienced this lost dosent realize how hard that is, apart of you has died, a empty spot in your heart will always be. The hardest thing is not knowing, all of my baby's results show no reason why he died. So how can someone say try again, when I have no clue why he is gone today. As I read these testimones my heart breaks in two. I am 25 years old, March 31st 2008 I found out out my son had died. I was 32 weeks pregnant.
I was so lost, so confuse how could this be my health was perfect. I was a mother of two healthy daughters. My son Jamar was growing perfect.
I remember that weekend i felt no movement but all i keep saying was he must be too fat to move around. But when Sunday came I felt nothing at all. I knew something was wrong. That monday I went to see my doctor he hooked me up to the monitor, my heart stoped, I can picture his face when i close my eyes when he turned to me and said those four words, I am so sorry.
I heard him but I went numb, It took me about five minutes before i realized my son was gone. MY heart felt like it was spiliting in two I can just remember tears flooding my eyes. , the hardest thing I had to ever do was to tell my girls their brother was not coming home. I was induced the next day within 7 hours he was here. I was so afraid, but then at the same time I was ready, ready to hold him and say goodbye. I wish so many times I had spent more time with him, held him longer kissed his perfect little face. Some people say to me your young try again, but those who has not experienced this lost dosent realize how hard that is, apart of you has died, a empty spot in your heart will always be. The hardest thing is not knowing, all of my baby’s results show no reason why he died. So how can someone say try again, when I have no clue why he is gone today.

]]> Comment on Statues, Fountains and Art in Baby Memorial Gardens by ginacarruba http://shivere.wordpress.com/2008/03/04/statues-fountains-and-art-in-baby-memorial-gardens/#comment-558 ginacarruba Mon, 14 Jul 2008 00:50:19 +0000 http://shivere.wordpress.com/?p=197#comment-558 Thank you for this post! I am currently in the process of planning my daughter's memorial garden. You have been very helpful! Thank you for this post! I am currently in the process of planning my daughter’s memorial garden. You have been very helpful!

]]> Comment on Angels Communicate by diana gardner-williams http://shivere.wordpress.com/2007/04/19/angels-communicate/#comment-540 diana gardner-williams Wed, 09 Jul 2008 15:32:19 +0000 http://shivere.wordpress.com/2007/04/19/angels-communicate/#comment-540 Thank you for sharing your tremendous faith with us Bernadette. May your tomatoes be abundant Peace Love and Hugs from Above Diana Thank you for sharing your tremendous faith with us Bernadette.

May your tomatoes be abundant

Peace Love and Hugs from Above
Diana

]]> Comment on Angels Communicate by Bernadette http://shivere.wordpress.com/2007/04/19/angels-communicate/#comment-538 Bernadette Wed, 09 Jul 2008 12:31:40 +0000 http://shivere.wordpress.com/2007/04/19/angels-communicate/#comment-538 I absolutely believe in angels communicating with us. My sign is a gold star and also a tomato for my dad. IWhen I am missing my dad a tomato may pop up on a book, card, dish, sign etc. We need to allow them back into our view because they are always around us. I absolutely believe in angels communicating with us. My sign is a gold star and also a tomato for my dad. IWhen I am missing my dad a tomato may pop up on a book, card, dish, sign etc. We need to allow them back into our view because they are always around us.

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