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Comment on The Birth of My Stillborn Baby-Part 10 by Veelynn Dover

Veelynn Dover — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 01:20:50 +0000

I have read everyone’s story and it saddens me so much to know that someone had to feel the same pain I felt. Although I know none of you … we are so much alike each of us, losing something very precious to us. My advice to each of you is to grieve and do not rush it…there are no rules that tell you when grieving is up so take time to heal..
It will be 20 years for me on November 11th she was born in 1989 I had been to the drs. the day before all was fine I was 42 weeks. Perfect pregnancy I labored with her for over 16 hours the hardest birth I had….she was 6# 12 oz. a perfect baby she was. Her cord had formed a knot early in my pregnancy and when she dropped the knot pulled tight and closed off her oxygen supply. Born with crimson lips and black little finger nails I remember it like it was yesterday. My nurses did not explain a thing to me, they were cold, they put me on the maternity floor and I heard the babies crying all night because of course I couldn’t sleep it was awful.
God bless all of you and just know we all have angels up above looking out for us
Veelynn

Comment on Heavens Colors Comfort Grieving Parents by camelia willam

camelia willam — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 12:03:38 +0000

Camellia – Camellia japonica
Camellias are commonly grown as garden plants due to their gorgeous flowers and delicate scent.
These showy blooms are often some of the first of the season.
Camellias are slow growing evergreen shrubs with glossy, rounded leaves in temperate places,
like the Pacific Northwest. Blooms can start as early as January and continue until April.
These beautiful garden shrubs are a wonderful addition to any magical garden.

Comment on The Birth of My Stillborn Baby-Part 6 by LaToya

LaToya — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 00:15:22 +0000

I miss him and I know he is now my Angel above. Mommy loves you baby J.

Comment on The Birth of My Stillborn Baby-Part 6 by LaToya Fields

LaToya Fields — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 23:53:05 +0000

I recently lost my bundle of joy Jimmy Lee Jr. at 25 weeks pregnant on Oct 28. 2009. I went for a regular check up and they could not find a heart beat, he was just moving that day around 2:30pm and by 5pm there was no heart beat. I am at a lost for words. Everything was so normal and going good, there were no signs. I had no sickness throughout the 25 weeks. I lost him due to the ambilical cord being twice as long as it should have been and then a knot formed in it. I miss him so much even though I only got to hold him for 30 minutes, he was wrapped like he came here alive. I want to try again but I am scared of another loss I feel I carried him too long to loose him like that. I am devasted, i cry and wonder why daily. But i have to look to God whom my strength comes from, its so hard not to question why. My doctor said I could try again after 6 weeks. Any suggestions

Comment on Diana by Gerrit

Gerrit — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 15:47:01 +0000

Hi Diana,
I came across your website and I would like to share a song with you.

It is called “Still” and you can find it on my website:

http://www.myspace.com/gerrithofsink

It’s the first song on the player.

After my daughter and son-in-law lost their first child (and our first grandchild) after a nine months pregnancy, I wrote this song about that experience.

Maybe there is a way of sharing this song with other people, through your website?

Thank you for your time,

Gerrit Hofsink

Comment on Do Babies Die for a Reason? by Whisper

Whisper — Sun, 18 Oct 2009 05:07:31 +0000

thank you for this story.

my cousin’s just lost their baby to a rare cancer called hemophagocytic lymphohistiocytosis. she was with us for a week and passed. it has been very hard for all of us, my husband and i consider them as a brother/sister. i am at a loss for words, i just can’t imagine what it would be like to lose my daughter. i cherish every moment with her because i know in a second she could be gone. i constantly wonder why god had to take such an innocent baby, who was loved by so many people, who was wanted by all of us..? i am just so happy that there are people to talk to and that all of the family is close so nobody has to be alone.

Comment on The Birth of My Stillborn Baby-Part 10 by angle

angle — Thu, 15 Oct 2009 18:21:22 +0000

wow that must suck i feel realy bad for you and i wish your baby live it may hurt at first but after all that pain was soooooooooooooooooooooooo worth it even if had not had one im only 13 and i hope you get a baby soon

Comment on Proud Father and Stillborn Son Share Birthdays by livingintherainbow

livingintherainbow — Tue, 13 Oct 2009 23:03:39 +0000

Thanks for sharing this – I love the simplicity of it and so profound. Sorry for all you have been through!

Can I respond with my own
http://livingintherainbow.com/2009/07/05/stillbirth-poem/

God Bless

Comment on The Birth of My Stillborn Baby-Part 6 by Marina

Marina — Tue, 13 Oct 2009 09:41:34 +0000

I can relate to all of you. My son Cassander died during birth on December 4th 2006. Four days prior to his death, the doctors told me that I had an in-utery infection.

I am allergic to antibiotics (lethal) and I have a little girl that needs her mom and I had her through and emergency c-section due to a rigid cervix which would not open under no circumstances.

The doctors told me when I had terrible contractions, that the chance of the survival of my baby were slim (less then 1%). They told me four days before the worst night of my life, that I have to make a deciscion: have a c-section and die both (baby and I), delivery naturally and have a dead baby but perhaps survive on my own.

My husband was in the US while I was back in Austria. The only comment of my mother in law in Texa was: Ah, then my other grandson (died at age 10 in a carcrash) has a playmate.

My mother watched my little daughter while it took me four days in the hospital and finally 21 hours to give birth to Cassander. I was alone.

The infection had spread. The epidoral did not work, morphines did not work, four male nurses and my midwife held me down, when the doctor had to break the cervix manually open. I had no voice left. They did all to help me..and no hospital in the world could have helped me better.

Cassander had no chance and still suffer from the loss.

I have now a little Jonathan (God’s gift)..but the hole Cassander tore into my heart will never heal.

Comment on Diana by Kasey May

Kasey May — Mon, 12 Oct 2009 03:39:10 +0000

I just wanted to say that I’m sorry for your loss. We lost our baby July 28th, 2009. She was born into heaven. As I have heard many people tell me that I am not alone in this I have found that out a lot. A lot of me wishes there was not so many people that could help me through this that has gone through it too. It’s very painful and there are not even words that could help comfort me or anyone that has to go through this situation. However, Thanks for writing your story.