I have researched online to find supportive elements for bereaved families of miscarriage and other early pregnancy losses to create memory gardens, scrapbooks and other keepsakes for little angels. Tangible items are very limited, however your memories are abundant.
If you know when your baby would have been born, you can estimate an approximate due date and use this information for various memorials for your sweet children.
These bereaved parents of pregnancy and infant loss have used some of this information to create “Love Memorials” for their angels http://justacloudaway.com/nav-sidebar-ideas/gallery/index.html
Peace Love and Hugs from Above www.justacloudaway.com
Diana
- Aries — “I am,” assertive, individualistic, enthusiasm, pioneering, leader, competitive, action-oriented, defensive, aggressive, intemperate, violent, fiery, powerful, extreme, arrogant, uncontrolled and unrestrained, quick, passionate, determined, fresh, head/skull
- Taurus — “I have,” sensual, affectionate, possessive, cautious, acquisitive, musical, artistic, stubborn, solid, earthly, strong, patient, sturdy, slow, kind, just, throat/neck
- Gemini — “I think,” “I know,” curious, multi-tasking, talkative, sociable, duality, mercurial, whimsical, intelligent, restless, quick, informed, hands/lungs
- Cancer — “I feel,” sensitive, tenacious, family and home oriented, helpful, nurturing, moody, watery, protective, emotional, crabby, moody, loving, stomach/breasts
- Leo — “I rule,” passionate, bossy, loves attention, dramatic, independent, noble, creative, leader, egotistic, sunny, bright, kingly, powerful, heart/back
- Virgo — “I analyze,” practical, work and service oriented, critical, common sense, modest, intelligent, health conscious, fussy, helpful, loving, flexible, intestines/digestion
- Libra — “We are,” partnerships, balance, grace, charm, debative, open-minded, cooperative, social, ideas, lazy, kidneys/lumbar
- Scorpio — “I desire,” intense, controlling, sexual, confrontative, deep, skeptical, mysterious, obsessive, death, transformation, genitals/reproductive organs
- Sagittarius — “I seek,” philosophic, fun-loving, arrogant, adventurous, expansive, optimistic, blundering, believer, scattered, hips/thighs
- Capricorn — “I use,” ambitious, cautious, rigid, authoritative, cunning, competent, saturnine, inclined to politics/business, knees/skeleton
- Aquarius — “I know,” friendships, humanitarian, cause-oriented, the group, society, progressive, eccentric, elitist, sophisticated, objective, nervous system/ankles
- Pisces — “I believe,” feeling, duality, idealistic, spirituality, acceptance, undiscriminating, soul growth, martyrdom, artistic, neglectful, surrender, compassionate, feet/immune system
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Month |
Zodiac Sign |
Symbol |
Elements |
Gemstone |
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Jan 20- Feb 18 |
Aquarius |
Water |
Air |
January- Garnet |
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Feb 19- Mar 20 |
Pisces |
Fish |
Water |
February- Amethyst |
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Mar 21- Ap 19 |
Aries |
Ram |
Fire |
March- Aquamarine |
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Ap 20- May 20 |
Taurus |
Bull |
Earth |
April- White Topaz |
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May 21- Ju 20 |
Gemini |
Twins |
Air |
May- Emerald |
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Ju 21- July 22 |
Cancer |
Crab |
Water |
June- Alexandrite |
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July 23- Aug 22 |
Leo |
Lion |
Fire |
July- Ruby |
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Aug 23- Sep 22 |
Virgo |
Virgin |
Earth |
August- Peridot |
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Sep 23- Oct 22 |
Libra |
Scale |
Air |
September- Sapphire |
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Oct 23- Nov 21 |
Scorpio |
Scorpion |
Water |
October- Opal |
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Nov 22- Dec 21 |
Sagittarius |
Archer |
Fire |
November- Citrine |
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Dec 22- Jan 19 |
Capricorn |
Sea Goat |
Earth |
December- Blue Topaz |
Hi, My name is Maria my Husband and I just recently lost our baby girl Isabella, who was stillborn on April 11, 2008. The 1 month anniversary of Isabella’s death was on Mothers day. I was 25 1/2 weeks pregnant and one morning my water broke. I called my doctor and he told me to go to the hospital and make sure that I hadn’t ruptured anything. When I got to the hospital, they told me that my water had broken and I would have to be on complete bed rest. After being in the hospital for 1 week and 1 day, several ultra sounds, 24/7 monitoring, they were taking an eco cardio scan for the Isabella to make sure that her heart was developing normally, as soon as I saw the doctors face after he stated taking the test, I knew something was wrong, I asked him what was wrong, and they told me that my baby was gone. I could not believe it. I thought I was having a horrible nightmare and was going to wake up and it would not be true. I have had good days and bad days and am just trying to be strong, but some days it is not possible. I have not received any of my tests results back yet, and I am very scared to actually hear the results. My husband and I have been trying to have a baby for about 3 years, I have had 2 miscarriages, and 1 still born baby and I am starting to lose hope. The one thing that I am so grateful for is I know that Isabella is not suffering, and our lost babies are our Guardian Angels and they are looking over us.
Take care,
Maria
Never ever EVER give up hope! My 3 month old son, Jacobi, died of sids in 2007, nothing could have possibly prepared me for that. A year later I found out I was pregnant, and I was thrilled. I’d finally get to put every ounce of love I had for the son I’d lost into motion. I didn’t tell anyone except my husband, and we decided to wait until we saw the ultrasound to tell others, we didn’t want to hurt the family again. At the ultrasound, I was to find out the baby’s sex, instead I was greeted by the nurse’s blank face as she couldn’t find any trace of the baby. A D&C and a couple of years later, I gave birth to a bubbly bouncing baby boy, whom I named Jason (means Healer- he’d healed the hole in my soul I never thought would mend). He’s now almost 5 months old and so far everything is average. There is never any doubt that my Jacobi and my angel baby are looking down at us smiling. I know it seems like the bad outweighs the good, and at this point it does. But once it starts to get better there’s no words to describe the joy that comes from the appreciation for your child after knowing the feelings of having lost one. Hope this helps you a little.